Care, cover and guide

As a husband or father, you have a triple role to play.

• Caring for your family, this includes practical safety, but also spiritual care against the forces of evil.
• Cover your family, which means providing your family with the support and support they need, including food, shelter, clothing, and general well-being.
• Guide your family, which includes having a plan and direction for your family, setting goals, developing family testimony and evangelistic efforts, and guiding your family toward a better understanding of God's truth.

Caring means that if there is a strange noise at night, you get up. If your child is having problems at school, you should go. If someone knocks on the door, you ask who it is. Caring means sometimes just letting yourself be seen. In order to be present when your children need you, you must be sensitive to their needs. Caring means that your children have shoes on their feet and clothes to wear. It means making sure that your wife has everything she needs. I do everything in my power to make sure that my wife looks beautiful. She is a reflection of me! I do everything in my power to be sure that I am happy and happy. She is my best sermon! I hope to live in such a way with my wife that if I die before her and she remarries, her next husband hates me. He will have to work extra time to do for her as much as I have done, including writing some songs and poems, throwing kisses that fly from one room to another in the room, buying nice things, flattering her as she deserves. He will be very tired to have to deal with her in the way she is used to.

Guiding means making a plan. For example, when confronting your family finances do it with a plan. Next, share it with your family. Make it an effort of the whole family. Tell your wife and your children, "things are very tight now, but this is what we will do. In three months, this is what we should do. In one year, this is our goal. In three years this is our goal. In three years, we have our finances under control. " Give your children a future that anticipates hope. They will not have hope if you do not show them a plan and establish a sense of direction towards circumstances that surpass those present.

You must have a spiritual growth agenda for your family. Make plans with your wife of what they should do together to cause their children to know God's love, his word and his church.
Look after.
Cover.
Guide.
Let this be your motto!