Most people want that happy ending, some more often than others.
The road to the final lift can be fraught with disappointment and many times self-loathing. People's insecurities get tested and their strength may falter. They become irrational and abusive then people get hurt.
Today you will learn to avoid these pitfalls and whether you are a natural or just want to gain some confidence, I will attempt to have something for everyone.
First, you need to have balance, if you have no balance you will never get anything off the ground. It would be a miracle that you are able to even walk. Balance is that important.
Second, you need to have a "grip". There is nothing more offputting than someone who does not have a grip on reality. Don't become baited by your wingmen telling you that you "got it" or "easy score". Having a grip means you know your limits and you can convey this to your partner.
Third, you need to be flexible. Although you know your limits and at this point what you want. If you are too rigid you will break, the most resilient structures on earth account for deviation. Being flexible enough will help you grow by testing your limits.
Fourth, now you have the foundation for strength. Because you need to be strong and you need all the above to endure.
Fifth, this list actually ends on 4 which is less satisfying and a part of life.
Ok now some examples of picking up women:
The simplest I think is to start with a piggyback ride, then you can change it to a bit more fun over-the-shoulder lift. This is especially useful for wedding nights and if you have a consensually agreed-on cave.
Now the opposite of that would be the front carry, a big thing to notice is the composure of your female partner's body. Also, you need to keep your knees bent and lean slightly back or you will topple over. This is where strength and balance work together.
As you can see in the image, if you do not take note of your partners' composure you will face issues in more advanced lifts. Here we notice the woman is clearly afraid of heights, so it would be best to face facts, have a grip, and find a new partner.
This may seem like quite the leap in progression but I will expect you are smart enough to figure out the steps to reach this level of lift.
The Patrick Lift (I can't spell his surname), is iconic and although it has this legendary reputation it is a lift that unites the common and rich alike.
It might just be the lift required for some of your more Gucci partners.
The ultimate lift to accomplish may seem arbitrary though but this one takes dedication and consistency. It requires all four tips above and some days you will feel like it is next to impossible.
Cover Image ~Pexels
Shoulder lift
Front log
Patrick lift
Ultimate lift
