Well I never know how I am going to react until something happens, and I seem to take differents avenues eveytime :-) If and wehen you yell at your partner, well the way I see it is that you are comfortable enough with him or her to be completely honest...then again it could just be bad anger management. It is a normal reaction that you want the other to suffer as much as you do, but tht will not go anywhere, will only make it worse (even if venting feels good at the moment). The bes trick is really to count to 10 in your head. It is hard to stay mad after counting all the way to 10 ;-)