Conversing Rightly Loh#307

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Welcome back to another beautiful week ladiesofhive@ladiesofhive Community contest #307

     These week questions are:
☝️ What is one thing you feel like a proper adult should confidently know how to do, but you’re still figuring it out as you go? How do you usually handle it when it comes up? Has it ever led to a funny, stressful, or eye-opening experience? 𝐀𝐍𝐃 / 𝐎𝐑 ~
✌️ If you had a completely free, solo Saturday with an unlimited budget, what are the three things you will definitely do

My Answer:

Immediately when I'm reading the first line on what a proper adult should know how to do, the first thing that crosses my mind is good dialogue or conversation. Not many can converse appropriately. I myself, am still figuring it out.
‎After these one crossed my mind, I try ignoring it and thinking of another but I keep going back to it. Many of the problems we faced are because of how we run our mouths. Some people just have bad mouth. When a child miscommunication, it is understood but when an adult does that, there is always a repercussions.
‎Starting a conversation, maintaining it and ending it appropriately, is what I have been working on lately.

‎You cannot talk. That's the last I would have someone say to me because I feel that an adult should know how to speak in public place and stuffs like that.
‎And sometimes, if I don't know what to say, I just keep quiet because my silence is better than saying something that didn't came out right.
‎Knowing how to talk is not just about speaking plenty words. It is knowing when to listen, when to respond and when to let the other person finish what they are saying. There are times when I am too focused on giving my own opinion that I don't even hear what the other person is trying to say.
There are moments when I say something and later realise that I could have said it differently. Instead of beating myself up about it, I try to learn from it.

The unlimited budget

These is tricky.
I think from the question, am having just Saturday. So I'll be very direct.

Firstly It's gonna be a busy day so I'll seat for like five hours and eat all the food and recipes I never had but long for e.g the $100 BRGR (also known as the M:BRGR $100 Burger) from M:BRGR in Montreal, Canada.

Seconly , I'll buy every land available.

I wish I could go on and on but lastly, I would buy every company available.

Then maybe I would wake up some day to a life time of unlimited budget.

First image is from PEXELS
Second image is from PEXELS

Thank you for staying tune. Warm greetings to the ladies of hive.

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