The mindset and ways which it can influence our Decisions and actions has been the major concern of most of the profound world philosophers. There has been more than a thousand books and poetry written on the subject of mind.
One of my favorite is "think and grow Rich" it's a must read if you have not read it. All of our actions are product of our thoughts. And as a man thinks so he is and as he continues to think so he will remain.
Successful people thinks successful thoughts.
They never accept failure as a reason why they can't succeed. They have overtime developed a though mindset and that's why they where all very successful.
Everything you desire in life Is possible but firstly you have to believe in your mind that it is possible. I learnt this the hard way, but ever since then I have been making progress in my personal life and business. I kept feeding my mind with the positive and successful thoughts. The outcome has been tremendous.
Here are the 3 guide on how you too can build a successful mindset:
1. Strong Desire
Does your life suck at the moment?
If so, this may be a good thing and almost essential to help you move forward. Don’t complain about it or use it as an excuse, instead use it as motivation. If you could give anything to change your financial situation right now, this is good motivation to put your head down and start doing something differently.
Do you plan to quit your job? Do you want to travel more often? Are you feeling unhappy that you can’t live life how you want to live? Think about all the things you hate in your life. Then use this as ammunition to strive for something better. You deserve it!
2. Owning Your Results (good or bad)
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When you experience success, you cheer; and when you experience failure, keep going. Part of owning a success mindset is not blaming anyone.
Ultimately, you alone are in charge of every success and failure. When something goes wrong in your life, don’t externalize the blame on someone else. Take responsibility. A failure mindset is when you keep constantly blaming some else for doing something wrong. Some once Said that blame could be looked at as ‘B lame’. That is, you act like a cripple unable to change circumstances.
When you take responsibility you take back the ability to respond. It is this ability to respond to each situation that will allow you to create the ultimate outcome you are looking for.
Look to the big picture and quit being petty about things that don’t matter in the long run. Someone else is always far worse off than you, and many who were in much worse situations than you have gone on to become successes. You too can rise to the occasion regardless of your current circumstances.
3. Being Detached
This is the most important part,
While you must own your results you must also remain detached from the outcome.
Whether you succeed or fail, it’s important you keep a level head.
This will carry you through with grace and certainty.
Know that you won’t (and can’t) win every time.
But when you do have a big success, all your work will be worth it. You may put equal time, money and heart into 10 projects. Let’s say 6 projects fail miserably, 3 projects break even and one is a whopping success.
It’s hard to know which projects will fall flat and which will fly. What matters is that you consistently go after your goal. Don’t fret and wonder which projects will work or not. Keep going.
If a particular project looks promising, run with it. Keep going until there is nothing left that can be done.
Too many people give up just before the final breakthrough. You can run a 5000m race, but unless you complete the final meter you will never get a result. If you are 100% certain that there is no future in it, then let it go and move on.
Knowing when to quit can also be a good thing. Just remember, your first success is the hardest to get to. When you keep at it, you’ll be financially rewarded. And once you’ve made it, it’s much easier to create the next success.
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