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I watched a short video earlier on today, it's actually a thought provoking video that left allot of points in my mind.
I would love to hear your opinions but before I digest my points and views about this question, take for instance there are lots of work to be done by two partners who had no kids in the house.
There are dishes to washed, food to cooked and other house-chores in the house to be done by them. While the husband is washing the plates and the wife maybe cooking or doing something else in the house, one of them needed to carry the water dispenser bottle from the floor to the table. The water dispenser bottle was more closer to the lady and apparently obstructing her in the kitchen, she first of all lifted the water dispenser bottle and dropped it on the table then brought it down again because she felt there was a man in the house and wanted him to carry the dispenser bottle and drop it on the table.
A lot of people ask these questions and the answers from some of the ladies scared allot of men from them. Is relationship supposed to be a fifty/fifty affair or zero/hundred?
I believe a woman is a helper to the man, it's her duty to help her man and in my own humble opinion, you must not starve him of the necessary attention and help you can render to him till he runs out ideas, strength and even lost hope before you step in. What I mean is that your presence shouldn't be felt only when you are needed.
I honestly disagree with people that say women shouldn't do anything at home to help their husbands because they are responsible for bringing kids alone to the table. Is it not best to always occupy your space in the house even when not told to.?
In the scenario above, I see no reason for dropping down the water dispenser bottle again after keeping it in the right place. We may decide to say she proved a good point only if she asked him to help her pick it up if only she didn't even try or she tried and failed. But forgetting that it's both their responsibilities to keep and protect their homes it's for me. There are other things men do at home that portrays their masculinity to the max except otherwise! A woman is supposed to serve as a support system all the time to the man and that means she is fully ready and available to help the man wherever she can and not must until he fails in that area before she comes in.
I'm pretty sure if he was a amputee she would have come in but even when he's not, my own opinion is you're supposed to step in! Or is a woman not supposed to bring something to the table?
Let me get your feedback and opinions guys):
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