cottonbro studio
I remember my struggles of becoming more of a social guy than the normal introverted person I used to be. I remember the regrets that do feels my heart whenever I tried to talk in a gathering and end up messing up points because of lack of courage and Boldness to talk, sometimes I rate myself as an unintelligent person because how do I not get to speak well among my peers, how do I not get to communicate fluently when people I'm even older than speak well during our social gatherings.
Little did I know that this has nothing to do with age but majorly depends on mindset, intellect and practice. I kept on fighting my way to get out of the unwanted side of me and becoming the person I want to be and with lots of efforts and commitment, I won't say I'm done fighting my fears and inabilities but there's a lot of growth thus far, I can feel it and I have seen it.
I was the type of person that will calculate thousands of opinions and options in my head before I can approach a person or even start up a new conversation with someone I've never spoken to before but I can see myself engaging strangers with meaningful conversations even when I don't have a critical business with them. I sometimes do that and feel good after every end of conversation with whosoever I converse with, it reminds me of who I was before and how far I am getting over my fears and problems.
There are allot of people out there that don't really feel happy with their introverted kind of lifestyle but then they still find it difficult to associate and mingle with people out there in their vicinity. I know some few persons that talked about being comfortable doing their things alone and don't like to associate with people out there, they feel very comfortable with their kind of lifestyle.
In as much as everyone is entitled to their own opinion, i feel its very bad for someone to isolate his or herself from people. I believe in one way or the other we all need somebody to lean on. Life can put us in situations where we start to exhibit certain behaviors due to the impact of situations on us but it's very important to learn how to fight and not to relent.
Kindel Media
I knew what I wanted and how it's going to be of so much benefit to me and like I said, I am not totally there right now but I believe I will get to completely conquer this fear and become the bold person I want to become. I've not achieved gifts for being an introverted person over the years although it saves one from allot of troubles from people but I think we can balance the two together. You should know when exactly to relate with people and when to hold your peace, this will go a long way in life's journey, not everyone is worth having conversations with, whoever doesn't return the energy you give them during conversations then you should know they don't worth it.
We have people that we can talk to out there and they will be happy to meet and talk to us too. I opened up myself and I am glad I met allot of them during the year..
This has been a remarkable year for me, and this is a great achievement for me, don't know about you my friend☺️
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