Hi, @creativetruth,
First, I would like to say THANK YOU for such a meaningful comment.
I love to see that you got something from my video.

About your question... You gave me a great idea for a new video.
I have thoughts on those types of conflict encounters. I had them a lot in my previous relationships.
But then when I grew personally (a lot of self-development :)) and became more emotionally independent, I made a decision that I will never allow myself or my partner to take that road again. By that I mean, that mutual respect is our top priority.
That level of respect can be achieved only if I don't hold my partner accountable for my happiness and general good feeling. And vice versa.
So when I think that I don't feel good because my partner did something wrong in my opinion, I remember my decision. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY HAPPINESS. So I usually take a moment for myself and clear up with myself why truly I feel bad. And I let my partner off the hook.

I hope I answered your question. I will make a video about it, for sure.
Have a great day, and thank you again :)