It has become a habit for some girls that money is the only thing that indicates that you love them, aside money, nothing else. It's also so unfortunate that most people are brought up in such a way that the only thing that comes to their mind is money and as a guy, if you don't have money, you can't date.
At some point I do ask myself if money really can buy love because of the way some girls behave towards guys especially when you don't have money. I will be telling you guys a story about my neighbor which is actually a lady that got admitted in my school few years back. When she first came into the school, she was using an Android phone and it was her dad that dropped her at the hostel. After some months, she started following some set of friends and her behavior changed, although it's none of my business but this topic reminded me of her comment the day I asked her a question.
I could remember the day we were discussing and we talked about boys in my school and how far dey could go to make money. She mentioned that she can't date a guy who isn't rich and she will never date a guy using an Android phone too, that he must be using iphone. I laughed and asked her why, she gave her reasons just to justify herself and I made her understand that money can not buy love and then she replied "what is love without money"?
Many people think that the only way to show love is to spend all you have on them. I'm not trying to dispute the facts that even when you're rich you can't find love, no. All I'm saying is that if you think you can use your money to buy love, it won't work because what will happen when the money is gone or when there's financial instability for awhile?
I believe money can't buy love, as a lady or a guy, what we need is;
Patience: if truly you say you love someone, you need to be patient. It might take time before he/she may love you back but when it comes, you will enjoy it for the rest of your life.
Care: When you care about someone, you will show interest in the things they do and no matter how busy you might be, you will always be their to support them emotional and otherwise
Time: spending time with someone you claim you love is the beginning of love. You will always creat time to stay with your love, Money is not always the solution, at times, he/she might need your presence and that alone will be enough. When you're with her, try to Respect her at all times and vice versa. Not only the ladies but likewise the guys too. Everyone needs attention and care, everyone needs to be treated special.
Buying present, going to club and spending lavishly on someone without showing respect is not how to get someone to love you, In otherwise money cannot buy love.