Hello beautiful people. We have learned and understood what offences are and what are the causes of offences in our previous discussions.
We are going to continue our conversation by looking at the type of offenders that exist and what their characteristics are.
These are the type of people who offend you after they seem to agree with you and show you a lot of cooperation, they will say, "okay" to everything you say but the moment you leave where they are, they know they aren't going to do what you say. It is very difficult to identify them because they do not show any signs of aggression, misunderstanding or lack of cooperation.
They are the opposite of humble offenders, you know they will offend you immediately you start speaking to them, they make it so that you end up running away from them because of how arrogant and aggressive to them. Sometimes they offend you for saying nothing at all.
These set of individual will offend you and when you try to tell them what they have done or you try to point out those mistakes, they will just wade it off like smoke. The fact that you are offended is an offence in itself to them, they will be wondering why you are offended because of what they have done to you.
These set of people are very troublesome, they are very good at saying sorry because they know they will soon repeat the same offence they just committed. Sometimes they even apologize in advance because they know that it is possible they will offend you again in a matter of minutes. This type of people are usually family or close friends.
This are people who get offended because you got offended for an offence they committed. It is hilarious, they feel entitled to the fact that they can offend you but you aren't supposed to get offended because if you happen to be offended, they will pick offence for that. It is always best to avoid these set of people because they can make your life very stressful.
These set of offenders know how to offend you in a way that you wouldn't be able to say what they have done wrong because they will do a lot of good things and do something quite offensive in between, if you mention that particular one, they will remind you of all the good they have done so far. You will end up being the one at fault. They usually premeditate the offences, they strategically commit them in a way that leaves you feeling really bad about yourself. They appear smart, they appear cool and all the while they are really devising a way to screw you over. They plan to make sure you are offended, if for any reason you overlook their offences, they go back and find the best way to make sure they make your skin crawl. These set of people are usually older than you or have some form of title or upper hand where speaking against them is an offence.
These people do not care if you get offended or not, they will just do what they are doing and behave as if you do not exist especially if they are within some sort of self imposed right.
These are people who never meant to offend you, it just happens and you know they feel bad to have done whatever they did because they find ways to resolve it or make it go away. If they can't do either of that, they find a way to make it up to you if you overlooked their offences.
Now that you know the types of offenders that exist, you will be able to quickly identify them and categorize them. This is key or important because if you can identify and categorize them easily, you will know how to handle them which we will be talking about soon.
Cheers.
