"I trust the Universe for imposing on me choices that I have a hard time making for myself"

The problem is that we don't listen to the early, gentle clues. By the time Universe has to "impose" the choice we need to make for our own welfare, and to come more into compliance with the reason we were born, it is likely to be not so gentle. The workaholic may suffer a nervous breakdown. The addicted to superficialities may be presented with a life threatening disease which is a powerful incentive for turning one's attention to the more consequentual aspects of life. The drug addicted, like the former me, may be presented with withdrawals in a jail cell where there is no possibility of "to make this suffering end is to give in to the substance..."

Hopefully we will all grow wiser and learn to listen at the gentle early stages :-)