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Real change would not happen for you until you own the process of change. You need an external influence to push and prod you along just as you need an internal conviction that would motivate you to take the necessary steps. When people react negatively to correction, it's because they don't have the internal conviction to match the external influence for change. It is an illusion to think everyone wants to change for the better. Many people enjoy the status quo regardless of the negativity it may possess. You must be an active part of the change process for you to seize the opportunity therein. Own your change people! Do what you've got to do!