"Let our speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that that we may know how we answer economic man." Let us imagine when we place a record and listen to your visitor as he or she talks.unruly , try and listen to the conversation on tape when the visitor might ve gone.Then notice your own contributions then assess yourself . We all have to assess ourselves with supportive statement, correcting or inspiring statement , being indifferent or better quiet.. Let us always remember that our silence means consent in our communications.Some of are used to criticizing our fellow friends and colleagues both at homes, offices, schools, and social media maybe they do it un their subconsciousness.@okagurosemary. thanks for taking a glance.