Ok its actually been months and yea so many things have happened,
Life some how gives us different shades of both good ,bad, evil and exciting.
In reality people might never know what others are passing through unless mayb you get to engage them in conversation and hear their own story, then you will know lots of people go through alot and its just sad that some certain people have actually been living life of pain and sorrows but they still chose to be strong and hopeful in their doings.
I have met people hungry.
I have met extremely angry people.
I have met depressed people.
And broke people.
I have seen people without hope or vision anymore that all they want is to eat and be alive.
I have seen some rich people struggling to get ends met and some poor people that careless about those needs.
Life really comes in different shades and we all have different ideas and policies and inspiration and the thing that makes each individual act the way they do is simply because everyone is different in thier own thinking and ideas about life.
A lesson i want to share is a girl i know that had challenges and decided to end it all.
It happened that she have been happy and cool about her life till she got her job ,
First it gave her chance to see her future husby.
they got married and started a family and that happiness lasted for two years she had one son and when she wanted to get promoted at work
her boss became her nightmare they were both females ,
She worked with the company for 6years and services were all wonderful.
Her husband works in same place and he has worked for 16years too and he was getting transferred to Australia while the wife was promoted ,.
This couples were excited, they were both happy archiving this feets.
And then it happened that when her husband travelled they both planned on saving up so she can either join him there with time or he will definitely have to move back to to Nigeria on most occasions since the marriage is still young..
While he was there for 6months the wife had her 31st birthday party and the policy of the company does not allow or grant travelling permit if you are less than one year on your new assigned position, and this made the husband not to attend,
Funny thing is her trust made her to be a victim of lifes frustration.
The party happened after work hours somehow her ex showed up claiming to be giving a suprise visit she never invited him, but she acted cool because they both parted on good terms and since it was a birthday celebration and he has always wished her happy birthday even without coming to see her in person after 3years of their break up.
videos that were shared showed he was there at the little apartment the company offered her to use ,
Just after the party everyone was leaving when some how she took a little win and after 1hr she got dizzy and it was really strong ,.
though her husband had warned about celebrating birthdays with the company that he has never been ok with them ,but she argued and he had to let her be,
Some how she slept and woke up 2hrs later and still saw people around even while it was getting late.
She never knew what happened but she felt it was stress and other things.
3weeks later her body started changing and she knew it wasnt normal and so she did her tests it turns out shes pregnant .
Like for real how is that possible.
She got worried ,
In that 3weeks she attended 4 birthday parties organised by her company for other workers and in 3 occasions she had passed out at some point after getting dizzy and it made her scared somebody must have done things to her.
It was just unfortunate that her little one year old son died 1month ,
It happened that after she discovered she was pregnant and went to abort it 2weeks later, because of her state of confusion she never told her husband about being pregnant.
But then a month later her son died due to S.I.D (sudden infant death)
Her husband was informed and he had to come back home after 2months ,the baby has already been buried and it was when she first felt her first depression as and was thinking suicide .
She felt she made a big mistake and it was making her frustrated.
First was that,
Her husband saw videos posted on the company's group during her birthday and he called her to tell her about not being comfortable seing her ex there in that party ,he was angry and she too got angry, saying he was just overeacting and tryin to spoil her fun birthday.
And they ended the calls with shouts.
Later it turns out the husband was actually right,
Her second regret was,
The ex boyfriends made advances at her and she ended up kissing him while she was tipsi .
She knew she felt suddenly horny and and it seems strange but she felt somebody did something to her drink,
Thou she never allowed the kiss to go beyond that, but it turned out that she passed out.
Her mistake was just taking her sudden dizziness lightly,
Her third regret was,
The ex boyfriend claimed he was leaving the country so he was there to say goodbyes and unfortunately it was his last day in the country ,she didnt know what to think because he never forced her to kiss him and her only fear was maybe she allowed him sleep with her because she knew she just felt that rush of dizzy horny feelings.
It was the thoughts of all the guilt and her baby dying in his sleep that made her think she was guilty and God was punishing her .
Another regret was,
She never told her husby about the abortion but she kept mute and was praying God forgives her ..
One year after the sons death,
She visited her hospital with her husband because he was now free to be visiting after completing one year in Australia.
They were tryin to make another baby and he just got worried she wasnt even getting her periods regular like before,and it worried him.
The doctor shocked them and said her womb has been damaged and some how it wasnt effecting her much because her hormones were helping reduce the signs .
Like they will have to remove the womb before it gets complicated and gets her killed,
She once told him her husband she had an accident when he was still in Australia and he felt mayb that must have caused it because she said she was bleeding alot after that accident and it was actually true, because after her abortion she was driving back and at some point ,got dizzy and lost control ,
the car wasnt on speed but she did hit another car that was parked.
But she never told him the bleeding was caused by the abortion but she ended up sayin it was from the accident.
So the husby agreed and later the operation was done ,he said he will rather adopt a baby than loose his wife .
Funny enough she never said anything because guilt was eating her up and she was afraid and sad and frustrated too.
She went into depression at some point and since the husby still gets to travel she was alone with her thoughts and guilt and it kept eating her up until she went to confide with her boss and seek to get help.
And then the boss made the most shocking confession...
She too have been frustrated because of guilt and she was feeling her actions made the lady to loose her baby.
Unfortunately she got drugged by her current boss during her own party ,her co workers never knew how it was done .
The boss invited her ex and payed him some huge cash to travel out if only he can sleep with her and get her pregnant.
They planned and laced her drink with a pill that made her to pass out and felt horny on that night of her birthday.
This same boss was also inviting the ladys ex to 3 of the birthdays that was held and she always gives some one to hand the girl the drinks there and she never knew they were drugging her so that the ex will keep sleeping with her ,
She only did it because the girls husband is her ex she wanted him back by destroying thier marriage, but when the baby died she was frustrated.
She boss has confessed to the girls husband already and was waiting to confess to her in person because she felt guilty.
And now all this happened she never told her husband and it was the worst mistake she ever made like ..
Her boss resigned,and reported her self to the police but she was granted bail,
she will be pleading guilty at court .
Her ex was no where to be found ,
Her husband after hearing from the boss called his wife and she had to admit and even told him about the abortion and all ..
He just stopped calling and its been 3weeks ,
The lady decided to end her life by sharing her story i was just speechless like ..
This is just sad how life can be this frustrating and hard and its all because of wicked people and silly mistakes
