Happy Weekend Steemians
My name is Ogochukwu Emmanuel and I am glad to announce to you that I am single and happy and that "You do not need a partner before you can live a happy life."
This post is supposed to be for everyone, but I focused on ladies because they are the ones who usually put their lives on hold simply because they are waiting for a partner. When you start missing out on real quality life experiences just because you are waiting for someone (who doesn't know you are waiting for him), you expose yourself to depression, frustration and anxiety. And guess what? No one wants a desperate lady.
Girlfriend, go get a life. Get engaged in something you love doing. Pursue your career, vision and dream with all seriousness. Have fun. Yes, that's very important. I wait for anybody to take me out on a date. Lol! I am my own date. I give myself the best treat. I pamper myself like no one has done before. I say sweet and romantic things to myself. Simply put, I Make Myself Happy.
I do not believe in waiting for a better half. I am whole and happy and I expect nothing less than another whole and happy individual. I am not running to him so he will make me happy. No, that is what brings disappointment and frustration in most relationships.
I will go into a relationship with him because there is something that attracts me to him. I would not be a leach trying to suck happiness from him. Rather, both of us will radiate happiness and other positive vibes and together we shall enjoy our union.
Go get a quality life. You can be happy without a man in your life. Being single does not mean loneliness. A lot of couples are still lonely. Your quest to have a good man should motivate you to get a quality life because no one wants a dog the owner wants to dispose (except those who can not afford something better).
Yes, you own yourself and you are unhappy waiting to dispose yourself to someone who will make you happy? What do you think you are doing? You're trying to sell something that is of a low quality? Yes, that is exactly what you are doing. And who do you think your buyers would be? Uhm! Your guess is as good as mine. Every reasonable person wants something that has Real Value.
Hey baby girl, look into the mirror and say these words;
"I am whole, completely whole. I don't need to see another person standing beside me before I am made whole. My happiness is in my hands. I will go into a relationship as a refined gold and not a gold digger "
I am still that lovely and humble 
