No Woman is hard, most hardened women are engineered by their surrounding.
I have been previllage to stay around good people, who have the heart of Gold, yet tough to the Later on others and even their Men. They were not so from the beginning.
Men have conditioned most women to take after the manner of hardness, the way a woman is handled has great effect on their aftermath behavior.
Don't sow negative hard seed into the heart of a tender woman, because in the hardness of a woman's heart evil can precede, but some times the Woman have the big ball not played right, hence causing unfortunate events and atmosphere to her hardness.