My mama always says 'Apreciate yourself '.
I think we all have to listen that wisdom.
Many times in life we don't do what we want to do. Not rarely we don't do because of the people who surround us.
Of course, there is not trouble in them.It's in us.
Why do we let ourselves be chained by others?
Why are we afraid of getting things that are already ours?
Why are we afraid of flying?
It's not fear of falling. I think it is more fear of succeeding.
How will the others react? Is success something that belongs to you? Why people who are predicted to succeed are afraid of their path?
I suppose many people have done something and then somebody else took the prize. Why?
I don't say you should walk on people to get what you want.But you have to learn to fight for yourself. In honest manner.
Sometimes we want to help someone. We want to understand.We have hopes.We believe.It's not wrong. But you have to learn who you choose to have your trust.
You will make mistakes.
But what's more important, you will learn to love learning itself.
Trust your gut. When you have feeling that something is wrong,don't fight that feeling. Your inner self knows much more than you do. Just listen.
P.S. While I was writing this little piece, youtube autoplay started to play 'The winner takes it all' by Abba. If you haven't listen the song, you should and you should read what story is in behind.
Feel free to leave your thoughts in comments. :)