Before the age of ten? Oooof, that is tough, so very sad. I get your decision to answer rather generically given the circumstances. Having been at a funeral/wake recently myself I know that question(s) about life surface during this time but I think it is more to reflect and not to start a discussion.

Dissecting, huh? If I ever make it back to Australia I will put SA on my travel list and then you're on. Deal!