You guys along the line will wonder why am writing about husband and wife relationship some may even ask if I myself am married hahaha, well the answer to that question is NO I am not a married man yet but I will be a married man in the nearest future right now am building myself to be a fine man any girl will die to be with when I say “fine” I don’t just mean facial appearance but my whole self from intelligence to wealth and to be a lovable man these are some of the characters ladies want in a man.
So back to the topic of today, the topic is telling all of you married men and even those in a relationship as well as me who is not in any of the categories but will be in one someday. Please listen to your wife, God did not create women just for fun no!! They are a strong set of humans that most men don’t seem to notice. They see far in most homes before any bad thing happens the wife will see it coming and will alert her husband but in most cases, the men take their wives for granted and end up in big trouble that may even lead to their death.
I have been a living witness. In a case where a man lavishes all his life earnings to a business, he didn’t seek counsel before he venture into it. This man has 6 kids and was an accountant in one of the prestigious banks here in Nigeria. I heard he was even promoted to the post of accountant general before retirement. During his working days, he spent this money on rice farming but yet nothing to show that he is a rice farmer because at the end of the day money won’t be recovered out from the farm.
He continued this way till his retirement day after collecting his pension millions of naira, he followed his dubious friend to invest in a business he knows nothing about it eventually crashes and the man was totally destroyed, he is now friends with alcohol. Now I heard that right from his working days he was advised to invest in better lucrative business his wife even asked him for some money to start up a business that will benefit them all but he asked her to go away and concentrate in the kitchen where she belongs now because of his one mistake his whole family is suffering the outcome.
What is saying in essence is that as a man don’t feel you can do it all by yourself while having your wives around hell no! always talk to her and listen to her suggestions before you do anything. If it's to build here from her the pattern of hose she would love if its business asks her what type of business she would prefer never you just do it all on your own without letting your partner know. Let them be love, respect, and others will fall in place. Avoid telling your friends about your marital issues always seek things out that very day don’t leave it until the next day.
I hope I have been able to talk to one or two souls; please you can drop your comments on the comments section of this post. And also support me I will be very grateful.
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