Yeah, you heard it correct, I'm talking about forgiving thyself. We all do mistakes. Sometimes we can not forgive our missteps. And feel guilty inside for life long. This is so very much self-harming. We sometimes fail to realize that. But I believe as fast as we can realize that, we can live a peaceful life.
You have to approve that we all do mistakes in our life. Don't think that you are the only one. You may not know other's story. But, you sure not compare yourself with others also in this case. It will make you feel worse.
Remember, if you can not forgive yourself, if you dwell with them it will kill you. Okay not physically but surely mentally. You will never gonna find peace and live a mindful life. That's why forgiveness is necessary. Learn from your mistakes but don't feel guilty. Make your steps clear for the future, your position clear to others. And step forward.
Guilt is toxic. If you are living with it, it will make your life miserable. So keep your heart away from all the guilt. Make your stand and make things clear if necessary. Promise yourself you will not do that again. But don't stay with the guilty feeling. People can be more forgiving than you. But you have to forgive yourself. Go for what's better for you and move on.
It's understandable that forgiving ourselves is the toughest job. You can start with others. If you make yourself to forgive others, you will come to in a position where forgiving thyself would become easy. Deal with your inner feeling. You will come to a point where you will see you can forgive yourself. Go for it. Don't let your heart hold it for life. This is not a healthy thing.
Forgive yourself coz we are not perfect. We all are still learning and be patience in that. Eventually, you will reach peace in your life!
