The advancement of life as brought about many job opportunities, unlike the old days when jobs are majorly blacksmith and the rest, there are now lots of job opportunities out there now.
Many people that i have come across, want money, fame, attention from women, while women want attention from men. Most want to blow up and leave their past behind while some want to be successfully because they have no choice but to be successfuli life.
People choose different career path - nursing (which i chose), engineer, software programming, and even influencers. Though as easy as it seems to be, being an influencer comes with great responsibility.
Many people want to be a social media influencer, they want to get famous and let every body know them. People want to be very big and known, to the extent that they advertise the products of different large companies in the world.
Personally, i actually want the opposite. I dont want the fame,but i want the money. i can not handle the attention that comes with being a social media influencer. People will be able to talk shit about you, your life will not be all that private from your audience, any mistake you make in life may cause you your career. That is not something i can do. I want to be free, not being controlled or fearful of what opinion my fanbase have of me.
I am not capable of upholding the reponsibilities. Like i said earlier, i do not want all the attention from fans, neither can i make contents that will build and maintain my fan base.
Actually, when you talk of relationships, this is a red flag for me. Once they are a social media influencer, i will look for every way possible to cut off from them.
I once dated a lady who is trying to be a social media influencer. It went went for some time, but she began to do nonsence (as i call it) on social media just to get more views, and possibly, build her followers.
I was actually pissed at this. After talking to her about it and she refused to stop, i had to let go. Maybe, in the future, i may like this path and decide to take it, but for now, i dont want to be an influencer.
Backend developers do complain of how difficult and stressful their work is. personally, i prefer to be a backend developer than to be a social media influencer.
Backend developers do almost all the job, in literal sense, they are the pillars but their work receives less attention when compared to frontend devolopers. THis is the path that i choose in place of being social media influencer. This is because, nobody thinks about the backend developers, all they want to see is the beauty of the job, every other thing is none of their business.
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