we are familiar with what insecurities are. We all deal them- don't even try to lie to yourself. These insecurities affect how we relate on a daily basis and we deal with ours in different ways. Some are insecure about their heights, others their ascent, weight, look, and so many more.
I'm sometimes insecure about my size. Oh my gehz i'm so small. Slim enough to squeeze into small spaces, have a cute face and I aint tall. For crying out loud, im a young adult in my 3rd year in the university and people still mistake me for a high school student.
BUT, over time, I have come to embrace my size. Being petite is part of me and i like it. I dont struggle for respect cos i carry myself well and my words echo maturity and adds to my age sef. I can wrap myelf round guy without wahala hehehe. Plus, i take pleasure in knowing i be looking younger than most my age in years to come!
You owe it to yourself to love you and own it! It might not seem so easy cos there is a lot of crap from people to deal with but trust me,
- some dont even know how thier words make you feel, so dont stress over it*
If i dont like you comment about my size i tell you straight up or say something that makes you question your comment- not aggressively tho.
Love yourself above what makes you insecure. If they cant handle you then that's thier problem.