I am a man,but today I want us to discuss about PREGNANCY.Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to state of health of the mother and unborn child?
Some men really do not pay attention to their wife during pregnancy It's just nine months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it manufactured in a factory It's a seed planted by us men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.
Pregnancy is preparation to welcome
some one into the family
Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
■Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat like mango and bread funny right?
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like frequently, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Some women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL OUR WORK.....
Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men like me neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy for her
The last Tri_mester is when we need to be extra patient, loving and understanding.
NOTE...
- Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy.
- Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is.
- Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy celebrate her she is carrying your product.
- Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 3am to help massage her feet. We need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's our baby,we need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).
- Nothing stops sex during pregnancy, infact sex during pregnancy is the best so do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy.
- Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovly places you used to go together. Women love such.
At times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.
A big appreciations to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy