Well , normally, we all planned to get married early enough, but as we were planning the economy of the country was also planning us.馃槀馃ぃ
Although we know that getting married is good but one must be very care and prayerful with the choices that he or she makes. At times some people have the finances but who to get married to becomes the problem and mostly some people might be lucky to see who the would have loved to marry but funds becomes the problem.
Because when you get married you are not just getting married to your spouse but you become part of their family and anytime there is a financial need, you maybe expected to also support, couple with the outrageous dowry in this part of the world. But the fact remains that, at times our parents doesn't see it the way we see it and the world doesn't understand it . They tend to pressurize people to get married .
I remember when my elder brother was yet to get married, my parents will always jokingly be asking him ones in a while , how far you never see wife ? And we will all laugh about it, but I knew it was somehow disturbing him.
Now it has gradually gotten to my turn 馃槀馃ぃ, and I was discussing with my mum one day when I visited, and discussion lead to another and we were talking about marriage, and immediately she say to me, see when you want to marry just be careful of who you marry ooo. And immediately I asked her, why me ? One day I told her I will marry when the time is right. Because it is not all about when you marry , who you marry also matters.
Although our friends are getting married , I can't allow that disturb me, even the bible says there is a time for everything. So I do believe when it's my time, everything will work out, I am playing my part and God will play his.
