Hello community, as I promised when I made my introduction, I will be taking important topics, and mostly I will capture real stories either personal or that I could witness with a meaningful message. This is very interesting due to the increase of Asperger's syndrome in humanity I hope you like it!
How beautiful the ceremony was, I will never forget it! It was the words of Mariel Mendoza, a 20-year-old girl who had finally realized the dream of every woman. He married the dreamed man, tall, good build, passionate and regional manager of a large company.
Their courtship was short, it only took 6 months for that unbridled passion and their desire to make love constantly led them to marry before the law and before the eyes of God. But as in any relationship the months after marriage that passion was fading.
The distance between them not only began with the decrease of their sexual encounter and mutual desire, there was something that went beyond, and undoubtedly it was Him, had different attitudes that Mariel understood less and became more intolerable, he began to notice in her husband, how apathetic he was to many circumstances that were exciting for her, isolated to the world that he was, he did not want to relate to anyone and his airs of not fitting into a world of idiots began to annoy and annoy her. I notice that her husband was more intelligent than she thought (of course, if she became a national manager of a large company in Venezuela), but she was too clumsy for basic things like painting the garage. She was unhappy.
The bipolar called him, he was not even interested in investigating if he really was a person with bipolar disorder, it just became intolerable to his attitudes, and being sarcastic helped her a lot, of course if it was a way to restore the bitterness in which she lived , since He was confused by his sarcastic comments.
It did not take long for the now-lady of Olivares with 3 years of marriage and a 2-year-old son to seek to release her confused and bitter life with a man even younger than her, who gave her the same passion as her husband, but without having to endure so much rarity in a single personality. He did not care about the good father that He was, nor the excellent and recognized executive that she had become, she did not even take into account that he never lacked him as a husband, he simply let him see her personality and that confused her.
When they were only 4 years old, they agreed to break the stormy marriage, harmoniously gave him some of their property and left him a good maintenance, but for her the impressive thing is that not even a tear
coat in the divorce process, he was the same serene executive and at the same time apathetic above all.
Years later, everyone was living his life, his ex-husband remained that good father, and they managed to have a good relationship for the sake of his son. He never remarried but had infinities of relationships, just like her.
When Jesus (his son) of 6 years began to present a personality very similar to his father immediately Mariel had an endless DEJA VU, the nightmare was repeating, it was until then that he attended a psychologist who after evaluating son sharply told him his son has Asperger's syndrome! For her it seemed a lie she did not even know that this concept existed because of her lack of general culture. It was a stabbed her in the abdomen, immediately called her ex-husband to tell her who in a serene voice responded:
I imagined it! It was always very similar to me. A few years ago, talking with the company psychologist about our broken marriage, achievement to determine that syndrome in my, explained that it was and because we acted like this, although I could not understand it because I am clumsy for basic things, when I finally digested my condition already We were signing the divorce, maybe if the use of the many droid that I gave you had been destined to use their technology in information about different behaviors in human beings, you would have realized that I WAS NOT MAD, and that I am simply part of the 22 % of humanity with Asperger syndrome, maybe we were still married because I loved you. But it was not like that, so let's talk about Jesus ...
Personally I lived this story very closely. The end? I do not knowt because it is still in development, Mariel lives lamenting his brutality and immaturity, he always repeats to me, that if he could return the time he would change his nights of passion with his lover for nights of endless readings about this syndrome, maybe he could have learned to love the new personality that she discovered in her husband and it would not even be so difficult to deal with and support Jesus who also has the same. But he always ends up sighing and telling me, "Well, well, time does not go in reverse!
Based on this story, I would like to leave you with information about what is the ASPERGER SYNDROME, and how to detect it, so that we do not make the same mistake as Mariel.
** Meaning of the word Asperger: **
Asperger's syndrome is one of the generalized disorders of development. It is a syndrome that is included within the disorders linked to autism.
Human beings who do not suffer from this disorder manage to notice the emotions of other people, which is known as empathy. This interpretation arises from a kind of analysis of the language of the body and the conditions of the environment. Those who have Asperger's syndrome, on the other hand, do not have this capacity and, therefore, they are not empathic.
** How are the aspergers? **
People with Asperger's Syndrome (AS) have normal intelligence or, sometimes, higher than average and memory is usually very developed. There are children, for example, capable of memorizing movie scripts at three or four years.
** Although there may be many differences between them, they share these common characteristics: **
** They feel confused with social norms. **
** They do not understand irony and take the double meanings to the letter. **
** To enjoy a conversation must be from your area of interest. **
** He has difficulty understanding why his behavior may have been inappropriate. **
** Repetitive behaviors **
** Occasionally obsessive behaviors **
** Routine people. **
** They usually have motor clumsiness. **
** To understand things well, sometimes they need visual support. **
People with the most intense syndrome may not even understand what a smile or any other gesture that transmits some kind of communication means, which hinders the development of social bonds. On the other hand, those affected by Asperger can not capture what is said between the lines or suggested indirectly.
It should be noted that a person suffering from this syndrome can have a completely normal life, although always stand out for their characteristics in the personality different from the rest of the people, being an adult and being aware of their disorder how to behave before the world It may be a little less different. In the case of children it is essential that their parents attend talks where they acquire tools to be able to integrate their child into society in a normal way without the need to be excluded by the challenge of the people.
** Recognized people who suffer or suffered this disorder in life: **
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** Source: https: //www.vix.com/es/imj/familia/5524/el-sindrome-de-asperger-en-adultos**
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