Before people pass judgement on other people, places or things, they really should experience them first. Don’t go by what you “heard”. That’s how a lot of problems get started. An example would be Passport Brothers. Western women are criticizing Asian women, saying they cannot speak English, not educated and are always submissive. Saying that their “leftover” men only go there because they cannot find a real woman in the US. Anyone that knows Asian women, knows that none of that is usually the case.
Of course, there are always the people that just like to criticize and don’t care about the real truth. They just like being the center of attention. A good example of that would be the “Karens” and “Kens” of the world.
I pretty sure I know what the biggest problem is also. You see, the United States is so big and there are already so many things to see there that it would take years to see it all. Of course, many people are so busy working and when they finally do get some time off, they like to relax. If they are going somewhere, then it makes sense to go someplace close, to try to see more of their own country.
Another deterrent is money. Everyone is so busy just getting by and not being able to save to actually go someplace, even if they wanted to.
If you think about it though, there are things that you can do that take you out of your comfort zone, things that help you experience different things. For instance, if you like to walk and you walk the same direction every time, go the other way next time. Also, while walking, look up at some of the buildings you pass. I know in many small towns if you look up you can see that many of the buildings are older on top than the newly refurbished section at the bottom.
Talking bad about someone, someplace or something just because it makes you look bad or just makes you feel uncomfortable is not a good excuse for be so cynical. If everyone was like that then this world is doomed, it would never progress. Thankfully, everyone is not. Remember, “Think before you Speak”.
In conclusion, we should let everyone make their own decisions about their life. You make them for you, let others do the same. No one cares about your opinion, especially when you do not have all the facts and maybe really only know what is good for you.