During the week my days start early, for my teen as well. At the start of the year, I would wake her up and we would instinctively move with our separate routines. She would yell a goodbye from the door while I was still upstairs getting ready.
A few months ago I realized we were missing an opportunity. I barely saw her face in the mornings. It would be evening until we saw each other again. We could do better.
We started eating breakfast together. It’s been great. We have a few minutes to chat about our plans, have a laugh, and be present with each other at the start of the day.
Time is our most valuable asset. We can’t get it back. I have experimented with many morning routines, but so far this one is my favorite. School will be out soon and I doubt the teen will be as willing to wake up early throughout the summer to continue this “tradition" :) …but so far, so very good.
How are you using your time?