I Almost Gave Up on School, But This Saved Me

Hello my fellow Hivians,

How are we all doing today? I hope your day is going well if not, don’t worry, just remember that even the sun hides sometimes and still comes out to shine later.

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Now, before I dive into today’s topic, let me confess something, when I saw the title of this week’s prompt, my first thought was, “Ah! They’ve finally caught me. They want me to expose my school survival secrets!” If you’ve ever been a student, you know what I’m talking about, those days when you stare at your books like they’re written in ancient Egyptian and your mind says, “You know what? Let’s just quit and sell ice cream.”

But truth be told, my own journey as a student was not easy. In fact, sometimes I wonder how I didn’t give up completely.

Back then, what kept me going, even when life felt too heavy, was my purpose. I had this clear dream since childhood. I wanted to be a surgeon. I didn’t just pick it randomly; it was something I carried deep inside me. It was the reason I chose school over learning a handwork, even though handwork might have been cheaper and faster. I wanted to do something that would impact lives, and I knew it would take years of schooling to get there.

But reality hit me harder than a surprise test. School fees? Sometimes nowhere to be found. Family support? Almost nonexistent. There were days I would just sit and think, “Why am I stressing myself like this? Maybe I should just drop out and save myself the headache.” But each time that thought came, another stronger voice in me would say, “This is just a passing phase. You will get over this. Keep going.”

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I remember a particular semester when things got so bad, I had to consider missing some classes because I couldn’t afford certain fees. That week, I barely slept. The stress was too much, and my friends could see it written all over my face. But deep inside, I told myself that quitting was not an option. I kept picturing my younger self that little child who had big dreams of wearing a white coat, holding surgical tools, and saving lives. I couldn’t let that child down.

I think what really pushed me was stubborn determination. I told myself, “No matter what, I must finish. Even if I have to crawl to the finish line, I will get there.” And honestly, that stubbornness paid off.

Looking back now, I’m grateful I didn’t give up. All those challenges I faced back then have now become stories I can share, lessons I can pass on, and memories that make me smile.

So, to any student reading this and feeling like giving up. I want to tell you what I told myself back then: This is just a passing phase. It won’t last forever. Push through the hard days, hold on to your purpose, and keep your dream alive no matter how small the flame feels right now.

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At the end of the day, it’s not just about getting a certificate. It’s about proving to yourself that you can survive challenges, stay focused, and achieve something you once thought was impossible. And when you finally cross that finish line, trust me, the joy will make every sleepless night and every tear worth it.

Alright, I’ve shared my own story, now it’s your turn. What keeps you going when you feel like giving up? I’m ready to read and be inspired.