Everyone has a unique timeline. No matter how desperately you try to rush things, if it’s not your time, nothing will happen.
I often tell people that hard work alone is not enough; without dedicating the right amount of time, you will not achieve success. Each person has a specific timeframe in which critical events should occur in their life.
When I talk about time, I’m not referring to man-made clocks or calendars. These tools, created by humans, do not dictate the real timing of life’s events.
Nature operates on its own timeline, unaffected by human schedules. It is our responsibility to understand these natural rhythms and seasons.
Many individuals make the mistake of thinking their time is slipping away when they measure their lives against a human calendar. You often hear them lament, "I’m thirty or forty, and I have no partner, no car or house, no money, and nothing to show for it."
This misguided belief leads them to rush into decisions that are often detrimental. This is a fundamental misunderstanding of how life works.
Let me be clear: time does not pass anyone by. People simply lose faith and hope too quickly. Hope and faith are what transform expectations into reality. Without them, you risk feeling lost and unfulfilled.
Marriages happen at different stages for different people; this is a reflection of their unique life timelines. The same applies to success: you cannot rush it.
You cannot force the timing of life. If you push too hard, it will push back when you least expect it. For instance, marrying at the wrong time can lead you back to being single. This is a crucial truth of life.
Life doesn’t pressure anyone; people do that to themselves. Refuse to let others impose their timelines on you. As long as you stay focused, work diligently, and position yourself properly, your time will come.
Life is a series of turns, and there’s no need to force things or feel that life is unfair. Concentrate on your own path and run your race. Eventually, your opportunity will present itself, and you will have every reason to celebrate.
I know individuals who pour their hearts into their work, often sacrificing sleep, yet see little return. In contrast, I also know someone who exerts minimal effort but seems to thrive effortlessly. This disparity isn’t a sign of life’s unfairness; it simply indicates that the first person’s time has not yet arrived.
Recognising that we are all made differently is crucial. The sooner we accept this, the better we can navigate life without resentment or envy towards others.
