I've found some sort of ease that is MOSTLY only possible in the life of females and males can't really latch on to it.
Like, males can but only the minority. Plus, some females CAN'T but only a minority of females can't. And that ease is the ease that comes from easily getting favours from people.
No one gets easy favours like females, especially in societies that have a good blend of patriarchy and civilization. That is societies where the people are patriarchal but not uncivilized to the point where there are strict and cruel rules/laws/cultures/customs that limit the freedom and rights of women.
Most parts of Nigeria has this great blend. Especially the South, West, and a greater percentage of the 36 State Capitals. There's a perfect blend of patriarchy and freedom/rights for women.
The women can vote and have all the civil liberties of the Western world. The law provides for women what 90% of that of the Western world provides for their women (the 10% lacking are just mainly technical BS that hardly ever comes in to play).
Monogamy is the main practice, and promiscuity does not result in relatively high opprobrium.
Just picture the Western world with say 30% more conservatism, almost same laws as said above, and now some more patriarchy in the mix that has no legal backing, only cultural, and providing and protecting women is viewed as a way of life about 50% more than it is in the Western world.
Now, this is not the ideal blend a society is supposed to have because it is never ideal until patriarchy loses all it's power, but what you'll find is in societies like these a lot of ease is easily possible for most women. The ease that comes with getting favours.
In societies like these women get just too many favours. The bad sides are there, but the favours parts, goddamn. A woman without a care steps out and it is common for men to offer men to offer her lifts. She tries to buy something at a store and it is common for men to offer to pay for it.
She gets talking to men online or offline and it is common for them to start giving her gifts and spending money on her. Happens in the Western world, right? But just know it happens about 50% more here.
I have a lot of female friends who I see it happen to and they tell me a lot of crazy stories that involves them getting one favour or the other. To them it is mostly just a normal life and nothing really crazy or interesting, but to me - a guy - who doesn't have this privilege it is CRAZY FUN to me to imagine it happening in my life.
Some of them tell me that I'm a good looking guy and I should be getting easy favours too from women. I tell them I probably get 5% of what the get and that's about as good as it gets for a man except he's a serious gold digger or he has exceptional luck.
They find it hard to believe sometimes and still prod me to put in some effort. One girl helped me give it some serious thoughts the other day like why don't I find some rich women online like these girls do, talk to them and all and that and with time they'll start sending me money because I look good and they like me.
She said I could do some sexy videos calls with them, send them sexy pictures, etc. I laughed and gave her some great insight about this whole thing.
I told her women are mostly looking for love (emphasis on the word "mostly"), if I engage them online without plans of giving them love and disappointing them that is quite a hugely cruel thing to do.
On the other men are mostly looking for sex. If you engage them and disappoint them, that is cruel but not as cruel as disappointing someone who thought you loved them.
Secondly you can satisfy the men's cravings to a good extent because it is just sex they want, sending pictures, doing video calls, etc. can assuage their thirst to some extent so you can quite reduce their disappointment from a full disappointment.
But as for the women, showing them love and care on the phone only makes them love you more and desire a future where you guys get together and stay lovers. At the end of the day you can't really deliver any value if you don't meet them the same way you could have if it was only sex they wanted.
These female friends of mine mostly get gifts and money from men online who are trying to get with them and they somehow think the opportunity to do that to women would be open to me too because they think I'm cute, forgetting that women MOSTLY get interested for love and meaningful relationships rather than sex.
I consider this a handicap, though. A girl can dabble into this thing and make money without shattering a person's heart severely because the person wasn't really about love but sex. But a man can't really dabble into this because he'd be breaking hearts as he'll be disappointing people who were hoping for love rather than sex.
This is all something men are missing out on.
The End
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