Please my friend @steemibu351, although I might try to understand the message you are trying to pass across but not all hivians may understand it, so another words I will advise you to ensure you write directly with English instead of translating it, so as to enable us get a clear picture of the message you're trying to pass across thanks.
As for miss understanding others I think one of the problem that causes it is lack of listening because it's only when we listen carefully and attentively we can only understand what someone is explaining about, we just need to make it a habit and a skill when it comes to listening so as to understand anybody's opinion.