Marriage should be a memorable one every day of our lives, marrying the love of our lives even makes it more interesting, and on no account I repeat again, on no account should a man lay hands on his wife nomatter what, wife's are blessing from God, the scripture says"he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtain favour from God" so g to do otherwise means challenging God's word which is disaster,,, we need to learn how to love, cherish and also respect our wife's and also make the happy