You are very much praying, fasting, but your neighbor is not safe by you. They are constantly being victimized by you. You can never go to Paradise. Sahih Bukhari said, "That person is not a believer, that person is not a believer, he is not a believer." Then the disciples asked, "O Allah's Apostle, nobody is a believer." Then he said, "whose hand and tongue are not safe from another Muslim." In another tradition, "a person who has a relation with a relation of kinship can not go to Paradise." -
Maybe they are not telling you anything fearing or fearing you, you are not good people. The good man does not need any of his publicity. He is not only openly, but also secretly, and people will praise him and discuss good things.