Have you seen that silicone tongue pacifier looking thing that you put in your mouth and use as an extended tongue to “bond” with your cat?
The first time I saw that thing I thought “That is so ridiculous!”
We look at love and affection in a human way, do you think your dog realizes when you kiss or hug it that you are showing a loving gesture? Most likely, what you are doing is scaring your dog or cat. Animals sometimes interpret physical touch as a threat so get to know your pet so you know what is the best approach.
Dogs no matter how “good” they are, they will feel threatened when hugged. If you have been squeezing your dog with locked tight arms and they haven’t bit you then you are one of the lucky ones. Show your dog love by petting them not hugging. In their mind they might feel like you are trying to hurt them. Best thing to do if your dog looks scared is to give it space.
Cats mainly show affection by cleaning each other. If you aren’t going to be licking away at their fur and gagging a few hairballs then it’s time to invest in one of two things:
The pacifier tongue thing.
A Brush
Cats tend to have flat ears when they feel threatened and will show their claws, as a sign that they will attack; best thing to do if your cat feels threatened is to give it space to cool down. Cats communicate with humans through eye contact, if your cat is looking at you and wont blink it’s a sign that it feels threatened. Animals do not understand the typical multiple attempt to fix situational mistakes such as you making them feel threatened by trying to hug them and then continuing to try to show affection after they display defensive behavior. The best way is to invite your pet to come to you for affection.
Avoid
Kisses
Hugs
