A very beneficial parenting workshop at my kid's school || all about positive parenting
Hello all parents !
In today's era we all know how challanging the parenting is . Everyday we face challenges....and if we react right, do right things we can make our child future bright and unstoppable.
I know we all are best and all do their best. But when we get some guidence this journey become more smooth and beautiful.
As a mother many times i feel what i do, how can i do in many situation. And talk about that situation with some experienced mom .
Yesterday there was a parenting workshop at my kid's pre school. I thought this is really a great work via school where we all mothers guided by 25th year experienced ritu mam.
Ritu mam is a kind and open heart lady who is so experienced to handling pre school kids , a good mother and a social worker.
And with a excellent educater there were so many mothers with their thoughts, idea and problems. So the workshop become so meaningful and there were so many interaction among all.
Today i would like to share all which i learnt, hope this will helpful for all.
Children's starting 6 year is so important. During this period child can learn anything easily. Any language and manner. She said that Children not only learn what we teach, but they learn much more from their environment and atmosphere. So, to the extent possible, we must behave in the same way, we must do everything in the same way as we want to teach our children.
It is difficult to unlearn what a child has learned once....So we should always keep it away from foil language. And we should not use baby language with them....even the all words should speak with right pronunciation. Because children start speaking like that very soon.
Children must learn their mother tongue...He will learn all the other languages in school.
Children should be taught according to their age...Like now when they are of the age to learn counting from 1-10 then they should not be forced to learn counting from 1-100. Even we should tell him the importance of those numbers...And they should learn practically which number is bigger and which is smaller and what they show . And we can teach them the reserve counting, can teach those numbers in english and our mother tounge.
Most important when child through tantrums, Or will misbehave , We don't have to get angry at him and we don't have to force him to behave according to us. Rather we should calm him down first and ask him whether this is right. They should be given space to think. And we should understand what pattern is there in his mind for that thing at that time. By doing this they will slowly understand.
she said we said the child is insisting...Even the child is not insisting, this may be the will for him. And the child feels that his parents are insisting. So at that time you shouldn't force him to do anything. Just keep this thing in mind that the child will learn to discipline.
There was a lot more left which I now feel I should share in the second part. I hope you also like these things and will try to apply.
@mysteriousroad