New Year's Eve Food (left or right) / 年夜饭 (向左向右)

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The Chinese New Year is a family reunion of the day, but in reality there are many problems, the causes of this problem, the family planning policy for decades, Resulting in many family with only one child,Every New Year will be discussed is go father-in-law New Year, or is go grandparents home,If live in the same city, it is perfect, but if do not live in the same city, it becomes a multiple-choice questions,This problem is not a problem for me, noon go father-in-law home, night go grandparents home, but there are Many couples are not the same city families,there are some single children may be difficult to choose.
泡了杯茶,想讨论一个话题 "向左或者向右", 中国的新年是一个合家团聚的日子,但现实中有许多的问题,这个问题的起因在于中国过年几十年的计划生育政策,造成了许多独生子女,一个家庭只有一个小孩,
夫妻俩结婚后,每到过年就会讨论去谁家过年,是去岳父家过新年,还是回爷爷奶奶家, 如果生活在同一个城市,那就完美,但如果不居住在同一个城市,就成了一个选择题,
这个问题对我来说不是难题,中午岳父家过新年,晚上回爷爷奶奶过年,或者都接到城市里来一起过年,开车也就200公里, 但也有许多夫妻的家庭并不是同一城市,他们的选择可能是今年去岳父家过新年,明年去爷爷奶奶家. 但还有一些独生子女可能会很难选择.

When I have a child, will think of one day we are old, children will face the same problem, I give the answer is, if the distance is very far,go the parents of the elderly New year, should be more, because One day, maybe you will no longer choose.
if Conditions in the vicinity of the city to buy housing, so that parents live in the vicinity is also a choice, but in reality, the habit of living in the rural environment of the elderly, is not willing to come to the city.
当我自己有了小孩,也会想到某一天老去的时候,小孩会面临同样的问题, 我给的答案是,如果距离很远,去父母年长的一方过年,应该多一些,因为将来的某一天,或许你们不用再选择了.
有条件在城市附近购买房屋,让父母住在附近也是一个选择, 但现实中,住惯了乡村环境的老人,是不愿意来城市.





































This is my father-in-law to prepare new year food, although a lot of food , but no innovation, because every year, almost the same, but also good, we are not often go,Only holidays will go
这是我岳母准备的一桌饭菜, 虽然很好吃,但没有创新呀, 因为每年都差不多,学无长进,不过也不错了,一年也不是经常去,就是光有肉,没见几根青菜 :)