Success is the dream of all human beings, as well as you will want to be a successful person including myself. However, many people are unaware that getting closer to the success of the challenges is getting more and more complicated and complex, so it takes a high degree of consistency and integrity to keep us going until we finally succeed. The greatest challenge in achieving true success is in ourselves, therefore if we are able to conquer ourselves then success always accompanies us in every step we choose.
If we catch a glimpse, the people who have been successful do look good, elegant, comfortable and more elegant. However, have we ever thought that to achieve success is a lot of challenges they have to face and pengorabanan they do, especially if success is already in front of the eye.
If success has been seen in front of the eyes, still we can not achieve, certainly does not make us become shattered, so if we achieve it does not necessarily make us become big head, arrogant and high hearted. Stay humble in every success we achieve, for that arrogant attitude will easily destroy everything that begins with a struggle.
So what are the things that can hinder our success?
Selfish attitude
It would be very dangerous if we are unable to detect early on how the characteristics of an attitude of egoism. Some bad examples of the nature of egoism are always feeling right when being advised, self-satisfying, unconcerned with the people around. Selfish attitude to us, obviously this becomes a challenge for us in managing attitudes and behavior. The real challenge is that we are not others, so do not often blame others or think of others as obstacles. In plain view, selfishness does not seem to try to look at our own attitude when we are dealing with something new or when we make a mistake. We are always convinced that the righteous one else just passes by.
Think of something young
Giving things up is just as trivial as something. For things that are easy and obvious in front of the eyes, if flexed will end in failure especially if the difficult issues, it is certain will become more dramatic and frustrating. If you are a true person, try to be faithful to small things, because if we are faithful to small things we will be faithful to big and important things. From now on change your habits in menggampangkan something, because this habit is clearly detrimental to you. Reach your success as fast as you can and do not push yourself let alone justify any means.
Delaying work
Delaying a job or delaying a task the next day is just as much a waste of success as possible or further alienating your success. Your success today is the fruit of your thoughts and actions yesterday, so if you postpone yesterday, then today you will not succeed. If you think that there is still a tomorrow just to cultivate your inner motivation it is still relevant and positive, but if the thought is to procrastinate to be settled on another day, it is clearly against your dream to succeed.
Take a good look at and read the great success stories of people, never once they postpone work let alone delay to act. Remember, time never waits for us, time keeps spinning endlessly and till whenever that happens. What you experience today is the fruit of your struggle in the past.
Always think and never start
Another great challenge is never to start much less with the excuse of failure. Thinking without acting is like failing to become real and getting closer to you and you've already lost before a fight, so doing without thinking is a necessity for success. Wise people often advise us, "success is a blend of mind and action". Therefore, the combination of both will create enormous energy in our activities to achieve success. Always combine the two in all your activities.
Different opinions
The name of teamwork must involve many people. Many people mean a lot of heads, and many heads mean a lot of thought anyway. Often what you plan is not in accordance with the opinions of others. "opinion, women are often in a 'lose' position, especially when it comes to marketing affairs and human resources," said Deborah Kolb, ph.d., author of her place at the table. However, this is not really about who is smarter. Every worker only needs to learn to convey his thoughts in a gentle, sincere, as well as ingenious way.
Beat the fear
One of the biggest fears that can hinder a person's career progress is the fear of taking risks. Many women are afraid to ask for a promotion or a raise. If you know, you are worthy and ready, then just ask.
Lack of information
If the connection is inadequate, then you will not know what is actually happening in the office (or in the business world being cultivated). Working in a field or company demands knowledge not just about the work being handled, but also the issues (not the personal gossip you know) that are rife, such as what complicated issues the company is facing. This kind of knowledge will stop you from making mistakes. For example, a company in financial trouble, and without knowing, you immediately ask for a salary increase on the boss. Can you imagine how the reaction?
Too focused on ability
"Many workers believe that if they complete the job well, then that's the peak of success," said Debra Macdougall, one of the career experts in the United States. In fact, the higher the position, the less meaningful one's technical ability. Conversely, leadership, vision, and teamwork skills are the ones that matter much more.
Too confident or otherwise
Too confident is also not a good attitude, most people who are too confident often put aside things that can be boomerang for them. Likewise, lack of confidence can prevent us from achieving success. The good is confident but not excessive in accordance with the ability that we have.
Poorly patient
This trait can destroy not only in terms of career, but also your life in a short time. Stephen Xavier, chairman of the Cornerstone Executive Development Group, admits to seeing the nature of both in a career woman. "if there is no real result for a certain period of time, they tend to give up quickly" The advice to my female workers is to be patient, keep communicating goals, and do not highlight too many egos. "
Lose on stress
A report came from economist Sylvia Ann Hewlett who found 45% of workers in large companies spend 70 hours per week working. This certainly has a negative impact on energy, health, and the lives of their families. Doing a marathon job is one example that a person is not capable of carrying himself well. In addition, fatigue and stress will actually make their creativity and productivity die.
Work on target
There's nothing wrong with working on target, it's just that it will not take your career anywhere. The principle you should remember is "if you want more, give more". No need to spend the hours of overtime torture, simply by improving work performance. Prove that you can be trusted more. Yes!
Has no good relationship with superiors
How can it be promoted if you are 'hostile' with your boss / customer? Of course, your name will never be mentioned. Without meaning to lick, establish good and sincere relationships with your boss and other colleagues, so they will not be a career hindrance and a boomerang for your success.
Too ambitious
Some ambitious workers are usually always focused on their part so they become 'blind' to the situation around. Despite the ability and good achievement, but without a good attitude, a career that has been pioneered with hard work and sweat can be destroyed.
Those are some of the biggest challenges that always keep us from achieving success, so be careful of ourselves. If we fail to control ourselves especially our attitudes, not infrequently failure always haunts us. As for the world of work, one needs to know what to achieve, know how to achieve it, and know when is the right time to reach it all, because all three are the key to success. You certainly remember the wise quotes from Arnold H. Glasow who said, "Success is simple.
Have we ever thought that there are others who are always blocking our success?
From now on, get rid of that thought from you because the more you think about it, it will get you further and further with your success. And remember, the only person who always hinders is yourself, especially in your fear of failure, can not accept reality, pessimism in doing something, and other negative thoughts.
