Actually not all inanimate objects are the main cause of association.
But the commitment of ourselves as parents to train ourselves to be more consistent.
That's right, maintaining it is a lot harder than getting it. Exactly, istiqamah must have a challenge.
Our commitment must be stronger as our initial prayers ask to be given offspring. Isn't one of the main goals of marriage is that? Do you still remember how consistent we were when we asked God to be given offspring? Do you still remember when we cried because our friend was pregnant while we hadn't?
Maybe our gratitude is still lacking so our will is still weak.
Then why are we still angry when children ask to play cellphones / gadgets while we are still fond of chatting on social media 24 hours? Why is it really strong forbidding children, "Don't watch TV" if we are still calm with our favorite films.
Then when children talk loudly, they are angry and angry, slamming and slamming things instead, they want to blame the environment? The first time introspection when a child behaves is not in accordance with the rules and norms, parents are not the environment. Because the first "artists" they watched were parents, not Korean / Indian artists.
Even our children do not influence the same story. Dilan if they are already known to the characters who are clear Akhlakul karimah, exemplary, and the story is REAL not Fictive. Now try to see how many friends of the Prophet they know, or perhaps the name of the Prophet also does not remember all 馃槕 Or his parents used to join in with Dilan, huh? Aduuuh Allah .. 馃槪
Don't use it. Do not be lazy.
Better to "bother" at the beginning if the ending saves reward. It's better to "get tired" of taking care of A until Z for children for the sake of the child if the ending is SYURGA. Which reply is more beautiful than that? Even though Dilan is not necessarily able to taste ...
The point is this, don't bother to think about the difficulty of taking care of children, why?
Because every parent's education will be held accountable.