Chasing the things we love is normal to us, humans. It may sound greedy to crave for something we desperately want to have. Who is to judge when happiness is what matters to all of us. We work so hard for the purpose of our own happiness. It’s not bad, though it’s too much sometimes that we neglect the important things in our way.
There’s a saying, “the more you chase the more it is distant from you.” Oh, sorry about that, I know Valentine’s Day happened yesterday but I think it’s not bad to insert thoughts about love. “If there’s someone you love, you should let it free instead of jailing it in your arms. Though how you could do it when you don’t want him/her to vanish or to be with someone. It’s complicated but the best way to explain it is acceptance. Accept what’s coming and what’s leaving because forcing someone is not love but rather obsession.
Back to Dragonfly which is the reason why I’m having these thoughts. I remember it’s Wednesday yesterday and even if I’m not that active in Hive these days. I can never forget walking when the Day of Wednesday came. YesI’m talking about #wednesdaywalk by 
There’s a small river at the back of our house. I can often see people washing clothes, washing dishes, and taking a bath. Also fetching water to drink from that small spring where the source of water can be found. I go there occasionally when I have time and when I feel like taking a bath there and washing clothes. When I was there, I took my time before going back home. I usually go sightseeing while wandering my eyes from the surroundings.
On one occasion, I took a rest after washing quite a lot of clothes. I was having an amazing feeling despite being tired because of the view. I accidentally saw dragonflies from a distance. I had my phone at that time, you know it’s fun to work while listening to music. I slowly walked towards where the dragonflies were freely flying while some just stayed in small branches of plants.
I slowly walked to make sure not to freit them. A mobile phone’s camera is not that handy when capturing a distance. I think it’s more than an hour before I was satisfied with the images. Dragonflies kept flying away when I was almost near them. Well, it’s understandable.
After taking photos, I smirked blatantly. I hid from the people in that river to avoid being fun after I smirked alone. I just realized it later but with that simplest action I found myself happy. I was too focused on being amazed by the beauty of dragonfly and forgot the things that bothered me. It’s funny but what matters was the time I relished myself.
Chasing or not to the things you love are always depending on the situation. Chasing is bad but sometimes it is not. Maybe let’s say that it could be subjective. On the other hand, it’s up to person how he/she will handle it as long as he/she will not hurt herself/himself in the end. As long as it’s not too much and as long as you don’t forget your limitations I think you will be fine.
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Paul was born in Macrohon, Southern Leyte but currently living in Cahayag, San Francisco Southern Leyte. He graduated the course of a BS Mar-E or Bachelor of Science in Marine Engineering in 2019. Although writing is his passion so instead of sailing he decided on writing.
He writes occasionally about random stuff he would see in the outside world. He loves to express what he feels through writing because he's not good at speaking personally.
He also writes fictional stories and emotions because he thinks life matters. He is hoping that his words could reach someone who might be feeling down.
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