Love is not sweet words, laughter, and surprises, love is capturing your anger because you don't want to lose them, to bare their different mood swings, is to do them good without showing off with it, is to be happy for their happiness, it's your ability to share their pain and if not to bare them till they cross the entire path through it, but most of all love is to give them excuses because you understand they are humans too, to accept them just the way they are.