Oga!
Don't be a mugu ooo.
In this.our generation, if allow your spouse to have a bestie of the other gender, for me, it's not safe to allow such.

Truth is that most men do not feel secured when another man is close to their wives, the unimaginable could happen.

Besties end up being in love. Most guys who are besties to married women would have been in love with them at one point or the other.