We always try to follow others. I mean those who do better than us, do better in exams, have improved a lot in life from us. It’s good to do but when the amount of it gets too much we start to despise our own work or our own position. I focus so much on the work of others that I can't be satisfied with what I have. As such, the salaries of the employees in each company are increased at a certain time almost every year. But not everyone's salary increases at the same rate. Although the position and salary of many employees are the same, the salary does not increase at the same rate. We then despise ourselves by wondering why the salary of others has increased more than our own. But we are never satisfied with what we have. This is not only the case with our salary, but also with our test results from an early age. We always want to follow the work of good students in class but don't think that the quality of our work is getting worse. The best student in the class comes out after finishing the exam first so we follow him and submit the book and come out. In the case of jobs, too, we want to mingle with those who associate with those whose salaries increase more, in the hope of increasing our salaries as well.
From an early age we are taught to always follow the best students in the class. But as a result we forget to make full use of our own performance. We always follow others so we don't have time to finish our own work. We try to make our work like theirs. But when it is not possible or fails, we blame our own destiny. It destroys our mindset. We don't see the quality of our own work, we think I did what he did but he got good results but why not mine.
Once it becomes a habit, it is a difficult task to come out of it. Because we have to have someone better than ourselves in every job and then we will continue to follow him. But this may not be the case for everyone. Those who are intelligent always want to be different from others. They always focus on what they do. Yes, they may not get better results than others but they are happy with their work. This is not the case for everyone. We are human. We always want to be first. If you want to get out of this, you have to follow a routine. Instead of following others, you need to focus on what you are doing. You have to learn to judge whether it is good or bad for you. You have to spend time behind work. Do not follow others, so do not despise the work of others. Everyone needs to have an ideal person in their life. But don't mix his life with own life . The way he worked in his time, you can't do your time. You always have to think differently. And the difference will make you special from everyone else.
