Are you a "nice guy"?
More than likely you exhibit many of the behaviors (if not all) that make you that guy who is always stuck in the background because you use "nice" behaviors to keep people liking you. Doing nice things for people is not inherently wrong, but doing them because you want to be liked or because you want the girl to fall in love with you is subversive. Don't be afraid to express yourself honestly to people. It will only help you and everyone around you.
