To whom it may concern,
Life choices are somehow limited when we try to over do ourself in certain things, when ever you find yourself doing too much to win the heart of a someone or people, you will definitely be drained at some point and it will effect some vital aspect of your life choices and decisions because you are somehow addicted to trying to love or please someone that definitely doesn't rate you,
Just know that you are not loved that way.
Sometimes you call more often and you won't get replied or hardly ever get called back. just know that you are definitely not important.
I believe in the saying that we all deserve the love we give or get, and that goes in line with when you get excuses whenever you want to see the person you are puting all your efforts on , just know that you are definitely getting neglected.
/If you keep up with such act without any changes, you truly deserve the ratio of love you get in return/.
People go as far as buying special gifts,
Picking special date locations,
doing all sorts of investment on people and still the person will not even reciprocate or hardly buy any gift back for them and most cases they won't invest in you.
This things are not hard to notice but then people give f00lish excuses for those behaviours in the name of being patient and it seems they lack self love for themselves that they don't want to pay attention to this signs.
Geniune people are not hard to find, be it for love or friendship , you can easily notice when your kind gestures are not being appreciated especially when you know you are doing your best to please the person, its very easy to know that if you are not loved back, the person will make it difficult for you to be appreciated for your efforts in showing love and concern.
Stop wasting your time chasing people that are not interested in you, stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself on people that feels nothing about you.
Learn to walk away even when its tough for you to do so, most times its more peaceful that way for you.
/STOP CHASING Women and Men THAT ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. LEAVING THEM IS THE BEST DECISION YOU CAN TAKE./
This is part of you knowing self love to yourself
Be wise & Stay Focused
love your self more because you deserve betterāļøš
