I am a man and I think most men will agree with me, and a few may disagree, but women need to know that sometimes when a man cheats its not the woman's fault. It's not because you are not pretty enough, or sexy enough, or that the other woman is even sexier than you are. You may be the most attractive woman the man has ever been with in his life. The sexiest and most vivacious woman he will ever meet, and he knows this, but still another comes and he sleeps with her. You may be saying why then? Is it that all men are just greedy? Why cant they just satisfy with just one woman? Its simple really, as complicated as it may seem to even some of us men. Men like variety!
In fact, its human nature to want variety, so both men and women are like this. The only difference is, women are more emotionally attached to their partners than we men are. Take kids for example: A boy will have a toy that he loves and then he gets a new toy and forgets the old one for awhile. He will occasionally play with the old one, but the feeling that he gets having a new one is more satisfying than the old on some levels. A girl now will have a doll and that's her favorite doll in the world and no matter how many other toys or dolls she gets for Christmas, she will always cherish that favorite Doll and be seen with that one Doll. The commitment they have from such a tender age.....I envy them so. We men try to be more in-touch with our feminine sides and be more caring, more romantic and more attentive, but these are all things we try to do to please our partners; but face it, naturally, men hunt. It's almost like its Primal within us. Back in the old days we use to hunt to eat. Now we hunt for jobs and hunt for the perfect car and we hunt for partners. Some of us are a little too zealous in the hunting department when it comes to women though. I must admit that, but you get my point right?
We now hunt pussy, the pleasure we may not lack in our relationships but that thrill we get when we get a woman interested in us and having her open up herself to us, figuratively and literally. We do try to be faithful ladies but we are not always successful. Most of you don't make it easy either. You see how women dress? It's almost as if they are daring you to take the challenge. I don't condone cheating husbands at all, however I have seen where it is like the ring attracts some of these women, like a homing device that they are drawn to; and the men try to say no, and do say no but then the women make us feel like a big pussy, like you are not a man at all for making such a opportunity pass, so we fall for it because of our Egos.
In the same breath I must also say that we men are very competitive and kinda macho too, along with that Ego thing. So we are married or we are supposed to be in a committed relationship and we have a friend who is single and getting it on with two- three women per week and telling us the stories and we want that too. It's not like we are envious of our friend, but the stories makes us feel like we are the ones in his position and that feeling lingers and we start picturing ourselves in that friend's shoes. We get a high from the stories and that primal feeling overtakes us again and then we hunt. It's not like we want to disrespect the women we are involved with, or hurt her in any way. Truly the other woman means nothing, its just a new feeling that we crave, that one woman sometimes cant give. Not because she is boring or unable to re-invent herself. It's just that men are broken, and we were made that way. So women bare with us until we get it out of our systems. It does go eventually and I can attest to this. If your man loves you and you know this, and you love him too. Don't just leave him because the next man you get maybe worst and then you will have to start over the training process.
Some women say men are dogs, but dogs are the most loyal creatures on earth if the owners treat them right. So when I say the training process, I mean we each learn to co-exist with each other and we each teach or "train" each other on how to accept our faults. You may walk away and this man was almost to the point of settling down, forgetting all others for once in his life and focus on you and you alone. But I guess you will never know now, cause you dumped him for cheating. On to the next one...but oops he has even more skeletons in his closet.
If you are open to exploring with your man I guarantee you that he will not have an appetite for another though....BUT let me not continue cause I may go on and on with this. If you ladies want me to elaborate more on exploring let me see those comments below.
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I will also get at the women a bit later. had to stay on topic. but a preview: A whole lot of women will not want to admit that they cheat, even to their best friends, but I am sure the men will agree with me. Women think about image. " I will look like a slut if I slept with this guy after one night and I have a boyfriend.""But if nobody else knows, it's like it never happened right?" Another way women may justify cheating is, he cheated on me so I will get him back". Knowing they have been wanting to sleep with this particular guy for months now but they have to protect their image. You sly little ladies.. ;lol . STAY TUNED
