Talking about your self-esteem partner? Nobody can speak to your self-respect if you are a relative or a friend or a life partner. It's absolutely unfair. If you always disagree with your partner, then it is better to not go ahead with him.
Love is a deep feeling of love. In this case there is a need to talk about the future. If you are not interested in talking about future plans, then realize that in the future you will have to run alone.
Sex is an integral part of love. But you and the mate both are giving priority to sex at a very high level? Then the future is uncertain. Because only sexuality can not be loved each other for long periods of time.