Can We Actually Blame People For Stereotyping?

I have always been glued to @tarazkp posts, because I got to learn one or two things in every of his post. And as usual I read one of his latest post and saw where he asked a question about stereotype. Which prompted me to write this article. I replied to his question and he also responded with the reality that made me to reflect.

The truth is that stereotype is in two different ways. One can open door while the other can quietly close them before we even have a chance to knock.

Some stereotypes are positive. People may assume that someone is hardworking, disciplined, hospitable or trustworthy simply because of where they come from or the group they belong.

Others are negative, causing people to become suspicious, extremely cautious or even fearful before you even speak a word.

Can We blame them? Definitely Not.

Whenever people speak about being stereotyped, I always find myself asking a difficult question. "Can we blame those who have become cautious?"

Our opinions are rarely formed in isolation. They're shaped by the stories we hear, news we consume, personal experiences and even experiences of others around us hence the saying "first impression matters".

The truth is that, when a particular behavior is repeatedly associated with a group, it is natural and wise for others to become careful.

Trust is on of the hardest thing to build and also one of the easiest thing to loose.

People have every right to be careful around such group. Trust shouldn't be demanded, it should be earned. At the same time caution should never become an excuse to deny someone an opportunity to be judged by their own character rather by assumptions attached to the group they belong to.

The reality is that most often than not, the stereotype ends up proved right.

The goal isn't to pretend that stereotype doesn't exist, the goal is to create enough honest actions that overtime will make the stereotype to begin to loose it's power.

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