Who is Moto Hagio? - 05282023

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"I also have a habit of being told something and then shutting up without refuting it, even if it is offensive. This is because along with the feeling of discomfort comes a strong anger, and I lose control of my emotions. The emotions become heated and at once become like a runaway train, and I can't hold them in. This emotion will surely cause a major accident. You get scared and take the side of suppressing and shutting down. I guess I should practice calmly refuting them, but it doesn't work very well." - The One and Only Oizumi Story by Moto Hagio.

"また、私は何か言われて、不快でも反論せずに黙ってしまう癖があります。それは不快という感情と共に、強い怒りが伴うので、自分で自分の感情のコントロールができなくなってしまうのです。感情は熱を持ち、一気に暴走列車のようになり、自分で持て余してしまいます。この感情はきっと大事故を起こす。怖くなって、押さえ込み、黙ってしまう方を取ります。冷静に反論する練習をすればいいのでしょうが、なかなかうまくいきません。" - 一度きりの大泉の話 by 萩尾望都.

I know exactly what you mean. I am exactly the same way. I can't say it back, I get scared though I am not wrong, I think about it later, and then I fall into a negative cycle of further aggravation. And then, in order to get away from it, I let it be sealed. I was so surprised to see some similarities between us. I totally understand. #MotoHagio

モーサマめっちゃわかるー。わたしも正にそうで、言い返せず、自分が間違っていないのに怯え、あとになって考えて、そして更につんでいく、負のサイクルに落ちます。そして、それから逃れるために封印させます。すごくにててびっくりした～。めっちゃわかるー。

Tired 👉 Nap
Sad 👉 Music
Stressed 👉 Walk
Angry 👉 Exercise
Burn out 👉 Read
Feeling lost 👉 Pray
Overthinking 👉 Write
Anxious 👉 Meditate