As human we ought to be flexible in our character and behavior towards other people and by doing so it's makes us beautiful in relationship.
The core virtue is apology, which is very important for a pure and healthy friendship and relationship. Apology strengthen trust, and bonds between two parties and amend feelings that are in pains. People find it very hard to apologize whenever they are at fault or wrong their opponent due to a case of fear, and pride.
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REASONS FOR APOLOGY
Whenever we apologies, it does not mean that we are stupid but shows respect, loyalty and regards to the p e person and people involved, by acknowledging your mistakes, taking responsibility and set out to make amendment of the wrong.
In life, for a good application of an apology, this three things must be done, first accepting the wrong and feeling remorseful, taking responsibility of the action on ground and the last one you must take a solution to the action.
When these three things happened, it will enhance individual growth, ease conflict, rebuild and strengthen relationship bond and trust.
People incurred or create common mistakes when it comes to apology: first they blame others of being wrong, second they uses language that will not curb the situation in ground such as "if I may have hurt you I'm sorry" and if I hurt you. At the same time people failed to listen to their conflict opponent feelings.
STEPS TO ENHANCE APOLOGY CULTURE
First, an individual should lead by example in apologizing whenever wrongs attitude comes in, create a room of free and listen communication between parties. Always be humble and flexible in behavior. And finally, whenever you apologize to someone, it's not a sign of fear or weakness but a good example of maturity which may not be of age and strength.
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