So I haven't written a write up for some weeks now . I've been in my poem world. Lol... Well I thought to put this up today.
Why leave a grudge in your heart forever and stay unhappy?
Then head to church and ask forgiveness for your iniquities whereas you already built a 'hate" house in your heart and unconsciously placed someone to live in there.
LOVE is just a four letter word with 2 vowels and 2 consonants but carries a lot of responsibilities.
Hatred contains 2 vowels and 4 consonants, note the consonants are more than the vowels. Well I choose to represent the vowels as love and the consonants as hate.
Analyzing this word, for a person who has this word in his/her dictionary obviously has more hate than love for the person in question which could trigger some unseen negative situations.
Do you agree that the rate at which a lady loves should be higher than that of the man’s. If yes, WHY?
This is why the ladies end up feeling cheated on and discarded empty. Okay yeah, I know you want to say the men fall into such situations too well, over 70% to 80% of the ladies out there go through more emotional trauma than the men experience.
If I had the opportunity to talk to every lady out there going through emotional trauma, I would tell them “Brace up yourselves”.
When you step out or get kicked out of a relationship instead of;
💔wailing
💔starving yourself off good food
💔making vows to never love anybody again or
💔hating him for being a dog or a jerk.
ASK YOURSELF
Why should I be the one in the precarious states mentioned above, WHY NOT HIM?
Ladies- when we choose to love someone we love beyond elastic limit compared to the men, we put in everything into whatever relationship we choose to build. The rate of a man’s love doesn’t increase compared to the ladies. As the day passes, that of the lady increases. Well here is the thing, love gives and receives, when this principle is not applied, it dies.
Hey ladies, it’s in our nature to love when we choose to ( don’t fight this) but when things don’t turn out well, do not lock yourselves up in your rooms and think of
💔suicide
💔running away
💔starvation
💔stop living life.
But be strong now and have this at the front of your mind, when a man doesn’t value you for who you are and “DISCARDS” you, don’t feel discarded!
Just know there’s a better person “gyming” up to have you. But while he is yet to show up, build yourself. Do not waste your time and energy building a house in that sexy beautiful attractive body of yours for someone who will never even stop by to visit (By this I mean, never apologize for hurting you, at least at the time you needed to hear).
Become a better version of you than what the other guy knew or met. Invest in yourself, become a ‘Boss Lady’. So that his jaw drops down the next time he encounters you.
LOL😎.
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